Sunday, July 31, 2005

Happy weekend

Well, I did it! I made a diaper cover for Brooke that not only fits her really well, but looks great too! ::does a happy dance::

I'm so excited. Now I just need to work out the detail and then I'm going to send out testers. I already have one, possibly two people willing to test them for me, yay! Once I get set with covers, I'm going to attempt to make fitteds and AIOs. I also want to make Brooke a dress for her birthday.

I took some pics of Brooke eating cheerios, wearing her new cover, and with her daddy today. She's been kranky lately, and today she was running a slight fever, so I gave her a little bit of Tylenol. I thought for sure she was teething, but after she napped I found a penny in her diaper! She had eaten it, and thank God it passed through! After that she was much more cheerful, and she kept giving me kisses and hugs. Jason is bummed because right now she is going through a stage where she is really attached to me and not him, and it is making him feel unloved.

After dinner, we went for a family walk. I took Brooke in my Ellaroo wrap, using the cross carry back position. It was very comfortable and secure, and Brooke loved it! I'm so glad I got this wrap!

Well tomorrow I am off to Wal-Mart to buy some more diapering supplies. I can't wait! I'm also going to see if I can pick up knitting again, if I have time. Time for bed! Ciao!

Public breat feeding: embrace it, don't hate it

INDOlink - Lighter Side - Public breast-feeding: Don't hate it, embrace it

At some point, it's going to happen. My 15-month-old daughter, Divya, will grow up and relinquish her rights to my wife's breasts. "It's all yours, Dad," she will say. "I'm done."

Don't get me wrong: It's not like I'm eager or anything. It's not like I'm putting up signs in our home that say, "Cow's milk: It's udderly delicious." It's not like I'm longing for the days when I could watch swimming on TV without feeling nostalgic every time the announcer says, "Coming up next: the breaststroke."

I really don't begrudge my daughter's breast attachment, even if the word "monopoly" no longer makes me think of the board game. I'm glad she's being breast-fed, I'm glad she's enjoying it so much and I'm glad she's staying away from my nipples. Yes, men do have nipples, the purpose of which was unknown for thousands of years, until a group of college students discovered, quite brilliantly, how easy it is to hang rings from them.

If men produced milk, perhaps breast-feeding would be more common, perhaps public breast-feeding would be widely accepted. Just picture rap star 50 Cent on TV saying, "I breast-feed everywhere I go: At the post office, in the grocery store, even in the record studio. Nothing makes me feel good like nursing my son, Dime."

The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that women breast-feed their babies for at least a year, though formula can be introduced after the first six months and root beer after the first six years.

About 70 percent of American women choose to breast-feed, but more than two-thirds give up within six months, according to the New York Times. That's partly because they face various obstacles, not the least of which is the stigma attached to public breast-feeding. Some people are uncomfortable at the sight of a baby being breast-fed, the same people who would simply turn their heads when they spot two teen-agers going at it hot and heavy, locking their lips and making more sucking sounds than the baby.

Some restaurants and other businesses even go to the extent of asking breast-feeding moms to either shut the faucet off or leave. "It's nothing against breast-feeding," Scotty Stroup, a restaurant owner in Round Rock, Texas, told the Times. "It's about exposing yourself for people who don't want to see it." I'm notsure which breast-feeding momshe has seen, but apparently one of them walked around the restaurant with her breasts hanging out, offering to feed everyone. "Come and get it. A shot of protein."

Truth is, most breast-feeding moms try to be discreet. My wife always covers herself and turns away from people. She doesn't want to put herself on display, doesn't want to hear an announcement: "Attention shoppers. A woman is breast-feeding in Aisle 5. Please do not run. There's plenty of space around her."

I'm surprised more business owners don't welcome and accommodate breast-feeding. The only restaurants that seem to encourage breast-feeding are the ones that serve fried chicken. Unfortunately my daughter, Divya, doesn't run after those breasts.

If you own a restaurant, it may make sense to divide it into two sections. When women arrive, ask them their preference: "Breast-feeding or non-breast-feeding." When men arrive, ask them their preference, too: "Mask or binoculars."

Saturday, July 30, 2005

saturday night

Well today was pretty good. I sewed some more cloth wipes on my sewing machine, and experimented a little with the decorative stitching. What a difference this machine makes!

Tomorrow I am going to attempt to make another cover. If that goes well, I will send out testers. I was also thinking of making Brookie a dress to wear on her birthday, and what I could make her for gifts.

I posted some pics of Brooke eating her Cheerios today. She's been a grumpy baby lately, I think she is teething!

Well we just got done playing poker and I won! So now off to bed! 'Night!

yay weekend

Well the weekend is going great so far. Yesterday I did a LOT of cleaning, including the dreaded bedroom. I played with Brooke a lot too, and not once did I feel drained. I'm hoping all this energy is because I lost weight this week, I can't wait to go to weigh in on Monday and see how I did.

After Jason came home we ordered out then Beth called and invited us out to a strip club with her. O we so wanted to go! We called my mom and suckered her into babysitting and were getting ready to go when I realized something - we have no breastmilk to leave for Brooke! My supply had been ruined when our freezer died!! So we ended up not going, but it got me to get off my butt and start pumping again LOL. Jason ended up playing with Brooke while I tried sewing with my new sewing machine. Let me tell you, it sews like a dream. I LOVE it! I banged out some cloth wipes in no time! I can't wait to try making another cover.

I posted some random pics of Brooke that I took during the day. Right now Brookie is taking her morning nap and Jason is out running errands. One of those errands is going to the bank and asking about getting pre approved for a mortgage, wish us luck!

Well, I'm going to go sew some more wipes. Ciao!

Friday, July 29, 2005

another cartoon...gotta love it.

cartoon

World Breastfeeding Week

http://www.paho.org/English/DD/PIN/wbfw05_pr.htm

World Breastfeeding Week Starts Aug. 1 in the Americas

Washington, D.C., July 28, 2005 (PAHO)—Countries throughout the Americas are joining together to observe World Breastfeeding Week, with a special focus on complementary feeding after six months of exclusive breastfeeding. The week of August 1-7 has the theme, "Breastfeeding and Family Foods: Loving and Healthy," highlighting the importance of timely, adequate, safe, and properly fed complementary foods.

Adequate nutrition during infancy and early childhood is fundamental to the development of each child's full potential, with the first two years of life representing a critical "window of opportunity" to promote optimal growth, health, and mental development. While breastfeeding is recommended until the child reaches age 2 or beyond, experts recommend providing complementary foods, along with continued breastfeeding, after the age of six months to sustain healthy growth.

World Breastfeeding Week, observed the first week of August every year by the countries, the Pan American Health Organization, and other agencies, aims to spread information globally about the importance of breastfeeding for maternal and child health. In the Americas, ministries of health, non-governmental organizations, and families are observing the week in a variety of ways, including conferences, parades, art shows, and special events.

A recent article in British Medical Journal The Lancet noted that interventions to promote optimal breastfeeding and complementary feeding practices are two out of the three most effective preventive interventions available to prevent child mortality, which is one of the Millennium Development Goals. The benefits of breastfeeding during the critical first two years of development, even in the most privileged environments, are indisputable, and that there are measurable risks for infants not breast-fed, including diarrheal disease, acute respiratory infections, ear infections and deficits in mental development.

Breastfeeding also benefits women's health by reducing the risk of ovarian and pre-menopausal breast cancer, and helps women to return to their normal weight after pregnancies.

Important interventions to improve breastfeeding include the implementation and monitoring of the WHO International Code of Marketing of Breast-milk Substitutes and the Baby Friendly Hospital Initiative. More recently, the WHO Global Strategy for Infant and Young Child Feeding was endorsed by the World Health Assembly to focus attention on the impact of good feeding practices on the survival of infants and young children.

PAHO, founded in 1902, works with all the countries of the Americas to improve the health and raise the quality of life of their peoples. It also serves as the Regional Office for the Americas of WHO.

World Breastfeeding Week 2005 page

breastfeeding lowers stress

The Globe and Mail: Breastfeeding benefits mothers, too

Small Doses Breastfeeding benefits mothers, too if(typeof sIFR == "function"){ runSIFR(); } Headshot of Paul Taylor Breastfeeding advocates have long maintained that mother's milk is the best source of nutrition for a growing infant. But new research shows that nursing is good for mom, too: It apparently reduces her stress levels.

Researchers at the Douglas Hospital Research Centre in Montreal recently completed a study comparing stress levels of mothers who breastfed their newborns with those who used a bottle formula.

To provoke a stressful situation, the two groups of mothers were shown fictional films in which children were exposed to danger. The non-breastfeeding mothers reacted much more strongly to the films, producing higher levels of the stress hormone, cortisol, in their bodies than did the breastfeeders.

"Our findings show some of the bottle-feeding moms to be more reactive to stress, which may lead to less than optimal care for the infant," said Mai Tu, a graduate student who conducted the research.

The senior researcher, Claire-Dominique Walker, believes the lactating mothers experienced less stress because their brains produce higher amount of oxytocin, another hormone. Oxytocin plays a key role in lactation, but it also seems to have a calming effect on the mother.

The study also showed that the reduction in stress was most pronounced in experienced breastfeeders who already had at least one child. "This indicated an added potential benefit of breastfeeding after repeated deliveries," researcher Sonia Lupien said.

all women gym bans breast feeding

Women only gym bans mums from feeding

Women only gym bans mums from feeding 11:18 AEST Fri Jul 29 2005 AAP

A women-only gym in the national capital has banned mothers from breastfeeding their newborn babies.

Club Pink, in Canberra's north, could find itself dragged before the courts after it told two members to stop feeding their hungry babies in the gym.

The mothers - Melinda MacDonald and Kathleen Notley - have held meetings with the club's managers, written to the club and provided them with relevant sections in the ACT's Discrimination Act outlining their case.

But the women were informed by management the no-children, members-only policy of the club stands and they could not bring their newborn babies to the gym.

The mothers contacted ACT Human Rights and Discrimination Commissioner Helen Watchirs and were expected to lodge a formal complaint.

"We asked the manager what the issue was, and she responded that the babies smell and the space they were taking up was offensive to other patrons," Ms MacDonald told the Canberra Times.

Dr Watchirs would not comment on the specific matter, but said it seemed to be a clear case of discrimination.

"Certainly it seems to squarely fit within the nature of the prohibition of the act as in clearly the women were discriminated against if they were breastfeeding in an area covered by the act," she said.

Dr Watchirs said laws introduced in 1999 acknowledged breastfeeding was natural and any nterference with that right was unlawful.

"Some of the arguments that the child smells are offensive, that the sight of breastfeeding is offensive is totally against the act," she said.

Under World Health Organisation guidelines, breastfeeding mothers and their child are regarded as one entity, which seemed to overrule Club Pink's members-only policy.

If a formal complaint is lodged to Dr Watchirs, she has 60 days to dismiss it or attempt conciliation.

If the parties fail to come to an agreement the complaint can be referred to the discrimination tribunal.

Club Pink, situated at the Canberra International Sports and Aquatics Centre, did not return AAP's phone calls.

grrrr

9news.com | News | Woman wrongly ticketed for breast feeding in public

Woman wrongly ticketed for breast feeding in public
written by:  Paola Farer  Web Producer
reported by:  Roger Wolfe  9NEWS Northern Reporter
7/28/2005 11:32 PM MDT

9NEWS Northern Reporter Roger Wolfe says a mother in Larimer County wants other women to know it's legal to breast feed in public. 4 p.m. July 28, 2005.

LARIMER COUNTY - A day at the beach almost turned into a crime for a Larimer County woman who got a ticket for nursing her baby in public.

"I was completely embarrassed and humiliated," said Dorian Ryan about the summons she received from a park ranger.

It happened at the swim beach at Carter Lake.  Ryan says the same park ranger had warned her the week before not to breast feed.

"We were shocked and asked why that is and they said it's to protect us from perverts and peeping toms," says Ryan.

It turns out there was no law violated and the ticket was dismissed.  Carter Lake supervisor Dan Rieves says the ticket was a mistake; he called it poor judgment by a new park ranger.

"They do have officer discretion to make some decisions and sometime that decision is made poorly," he said.

Besides voiding the ticket, Rieves says he will send a letter of apology to Ryan.

Ryan says she's speaking out because she wants to spread the word that it is legal to breast feed in any public place in Colorado.

"Personally I'd like to be able to go to the beach and not be hassled - and let my kids have great memories of sand castles and playing in the water - not of a park ranger coming up to mommy again," she says.

The Colorado legislature passed a new law last year affirming the right of mothers to breast feed in public places.  The park ranger who issued the citation was reprimanded by supervisors.


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Thursday, July 28, 2005

thank god tomorrow is friday

Well today was uneventful. I did laundry and cleaned. Went to Target with my mom, where I finally got my sewing machine, yay! I also picked up some other random things. When Jason got home we went out to eat for Chinese, and the rest of the night was spent reading the sewing machine's manual while Jason set it up and chatting online. Tomorrow's plan is to sew, catch up on cleaning, excercise, etc. That is, if Brookie cooperates ;o)

O, one other thing we did was drive by this house that is for sale. It's a great beginner's house in a great neighborhood for a great price, but it just bummed me out cause I know we can't afford it. Ugh, I hate having no money :o(

Well, that's all. Ciao!

Dr. Phil@@

DrPhil.com - Strangers Complain When I Breast Feed In Public!

Strangers Complain When I Breast Feed In Public!

Do you think it's okay to breast feed your child in public places but others complain that your behavior is inappropriate? Have strangers told you that they are appalled by your breast feeding in restaurants, grocery stores, public restrooms, department stores, doctor's offices, etc. but you think breast feeding is such a natural and beautiful act that you should have the right to do it anywhere and anytime you please? OR do you know someone who breast feeds their child in public and you are offended by it? Do you need Dr. Phil's help at confronting your friend or family member about their inappropriate habit to breast feed in public? If you have personal experience AND very strong feelings about this issue please reply by emailing us your story. ONLY RESPOND IF YOU WOULD BE WILLING TO APPEAR ON NATIONAL TV WITH DR. PHIL

.----and on the flip side:
DrPhil.com - Adamantly Against Nursing In Public?

Adamantly Against Nursing In Public?
Are you offended when others breast feed their children in public? Does it disgust you to see women nursing in restaurants, grocery stores, public restrooms, department stores, doctor's offices, etc. and you can't understand WHY anyone thinks breast feeding is a natural and beautiful act? Do you need Dr. Phil's help at confronting a friend or family member about their inappropriate habit to breast feed in public? Do you disagree with your spouse about his/her opinion on nursing in public? Does your difference of opinion cause MAJOR fights between you and your partner?  If you have personal experience AND very strong feelings about this issue please reply by emailing us your story. ONLY RESPOND IF YOU WOULD BE WILLING TO APPEAR ON NATIONAL TV WITH DR. PHIL.

Wednesday, July 27, 2005

Bond with the Band

Join Together With The Band

This summer, they are stacking up on wrists (and young ankles) everywhere: colored silicone bracelets inspired by the Lance Armstrong Foundation’s popular yellow “Live Strong” version. Now, you can join the trend and show your true lactivist colors by donning a new, purple band embossed with the message “Encourage, Support, Protect Breastfeeding.” Released last week at the La Leche League International conference in Washington D.C., the lilac colored bands were the hottest item on the convention hall floor. The bracelets are part of a new campaign, The Breastfeeding Protection Initiative, created by partners La Leche League International and Lansinoh Laboratories (a leading provider of breastfeeding products for mothers and babies). The campaign aims to provide education and awareness of breastfeeding rights. La Leche League International, who next year will be celebrating its 50th anniversary, has a presence in 65 countries around the world helping and encouraging mothers who want to breastfeed their babies.

“All proceeds from the purchase of this bracelet will go toward expanding efforts to inform more people about breastfeeding rights and to provide them with the tools they need to become a force for change in their community,” says Resheda Hagen, who as a breastfeeding mother more than 20 years ago founded Lansinoh Laboratories to provide supportive products to other breastfeeding mothers. “Specifically, the money raised will fund creation and dissemination of materials to educate people on current and proposed breastfeeding rights and legislation,” she added.

“How wonderful to let the world know that a woman has a right to breastfeed whenever her child is hungry. I am very excited about the possibility of seeing purple bracelets everywhere,” says Hedy Nuriel, executive director of La Leche League International.

Get your bracelet and learn more about the Breastfeeding Protection Initiative.

interview with woman from starbucks incident

Nursing at Starbucks: An Interview with Lorig Charkoudian by Jackie Regales - Hip Mama

Nursing at Starbucks: An Interview with Lorig Charkoudian by Jackie Regales   Story submitted by Jennifer on Tue 15 Mar 2005 - 09:54 h   Nursing at Starbucks: An Interview with Lorig Charkoudian
By Jackie Regales

This summer, Lorig Charkoudian sat down in her local Starbucks and began to nurse her 19 month old daughter. Shortly after she began, she was asked to move or leave by a manager, even though no customers had complained, and her state of Maryland has legally protected the rights of mothers to breastfeed in public. Fully aware of her rights, Charkoudian returned later that week with over 100 supporters, including over 30 nursing mothers, held a” nurse-in,” demanding that Starbucks serve as a corporate leader and make a friendlier environment for nursing mothers. She was astounded at the amount of attention the nurse-in received, resulting in the requests for interviews from as far away as Japan and Finland after the Associated Press picked up the story. I spoke with her on the phone several times during her busy workday in conflict resolution.

Jackie: So, how happy are you with how the nurse-in turned out?

Lorig: I’ll tell you, in all my years of activism, this is the kind of response you dream of, national press, lots of individual responses, immediate reaction from the corporation, and even other groups taking our cue and doing nurse-ins in their own community. It’s been amazing.

Jackie: I know you’ve had a history of being involved with activism. What kind of causes have you worked with before, and how is this experience different?

Lorig: Well, my experience with activism began in the fifth grade, when I ran a campaign to save our junior high school, so I guess you could say I’ve been doing this all my life! Later, I was involved more in issues like campaigning against the death penalty, working with human rights issues, and dealing with things from an economic perspective, which is my academic background as well. In recent years, I’ve been very involved in conflict resolution to solve community problems, which is currently how I earn a living. In some ways, this campaign is an extension of what I’ve always done, but in others ways it’s been extremely personal for me.

Jackie: Could you tell me more about that? Do you think the difference is connected to our cultural ideas about motherhood?

Lorig: Yes, definitely. I’ve been reading Shannon Malamud Smith’s book, A Potent Spell, recently, and it’s all about how our connection to and immense love for our children inherently is a fear of harm coming to them, which has historically been used to control women. You know, it’s that whole idea of “We want you stay home, be a good mother, raise your children correctly and keep them safe.” It’s very threatening to a lot of people to bring motherhood out into the public arena, and women are subject to these intense feelings of shame and embarrassment when they are recognized as transgressing those boundaries.

Jackie: It’s especially hard to talk about issues surrounding motherhood, because once you put your own mothering choices out there, it’s all up for grabs and subject to attack.

Lorig: Yes! I was amazed at how many of the responses we have gotten about the nurse-in have really been trying to shame me for my choices, and make these really personal attacks on me and my choices as a mother. One group of five mothers sent me a pile of information on the dangers of caffeine and how I shouldn’t be drinking coffee if I’m nursing anyway. One woman wrote, “Shouldn’t you be at the zoo, doing something educational for your child, instead of lounging at Starbucks? Others were more along the line of, “How dare you be sitting around drinking coffee, why don’t you get a hobby or a job,” not realizing that I do have a full-time job outside of caring for my daughter.

Jackie: Right, it’s that whole attitude that if women are discontented, the solution is that they must have too much free time on their hands, not that their concerns are actually valid or serious.

Lorig: One of the dominant threads in the responses also was the idea that our protest was petty, about a petty issue, while there are children dying of hunger in the world, and wars being fought, and so on. Others thought it was ridiculous that we expected a company like Starbucks to care about its customers, while our point was that Starbucks has the power to change industry thinking on issues like public breastfeeding, and should use that power wisely.

Jackie: Tell me about some of your favorite responses or stories from nurse-ins.

Lorig: One of my favorite stories has to be from a nurse-in that was held by a group of mothers in Austin, Texas, who were inspired by our success. They showed up at their chosen Starbucks with about the same amount of people we had, which was about 30 nursing mothers in a group of over a hundred people, total. While they were, two women came in, one with a very young baby. One of the nurse-in organizers engaged her in a conversation and found out that it was her first time out of the house for an extended period, and that she was really frightened of potentially nursing in public. She felt that the presence of all the women there was really empowering. And I just thought, you know, how lucky that it happened to be that day, and that place, and she got such a strong message that “It’s okay to do this,” that she didn’t need to be ashamed or afraid.

Jackie: That’s such an amazing coincidence. It’s a good argument for regular nurse-ins too, which I heard the Austin group is planning on.

Lorig: Yeah, that’s part of what they want to do, which I think is just great. It’s surprisingly easy and fun to do a nurse-in. I’d recommend it to everyone, at least once in their life!

Jackie: Had you always been a supporter of extended and public breastfeeding, or did this experience make it clear for you?

Lorig: I first heard about nurse-ins a few years ago, and I remember thinking, “Well, isn’t that just the best idea? So creative!” And this was way before motherhood was even on my radar, so I think the seed was planted then. And when my daughter was born, she came to work with me for the first seven months, so I breastfed her in meetings, conferences, in my office, anywhere I had to. I was so committed to breastfeeding everywhere, I went to malls, churches, did it in front of all my family members. My father and father-in-law both were very uncomfortable with at first, but they’re used to it now. My grandfather used to ask me to hide it, but once he accepted it he told me this amazing story, about how he was nursed until he was five, because it was in the middle of the Armenian genocide and his mother had to nurse all four of her kids because they needed it for sustenance. So that was a really amazing transformation to see.

Jackie: So you were a committed solider in the cause from the start. That’s inspiring to know.

Lorig: Well, it may be inspiring, but I’ll admit, the very first reaction I had at Starbucks, before the anger and the rage, was this fleeting moment of shame. Even though I was so prepared, and so committed, and had heard such terrible stories from other women. “Just let them try,” I used to think, but my first reflex was to feel like I had been caught doing something shameful. It’s amazing how internalized this stuff becomes.

Jackie: All the more reason to keep putting on nurse-ins, right? What future plans do you have for the website?

Lorig: Well, we really set up www.nurseatstarbucks.org just to handle the incredible amount of response that we were getting. I think at this point we’ve had about 27,000 hits, which is just huge. We’ve got some resources up there now, like sample letters and postcards people can print out, and we’d like to find a way to let people hook up and make connections through our website. It’s been inspiring to see regional spin-offs like the Austin group, so we’d love to encourage that as much as possible. We would also like to see the movement grow past Starbucks and be more about corporations in general. I think there’s an incredible amount of energy out there, and I’d love see that harnessed and realized. I’d love to see regular nurse-ins all across the country. Again, I think everyone should be in a nurse-in, at least once in their lives, even if you’re no longer nursing!

Jackie Regales lives, works and writes in Baltimore with her partner and twin daughters. Her work has appeared in Hip Mama and off our backs, and she is currently working on a book about motherhood and activism

update

Well just thought I would do an update. Yesterday I went over my friend's house. She has a baby girl named Brooke, took. Brooke and I had soo much fun, it was nice hanging out with her and her girls and we had a blast in the pool! It was also nice having someone to talk to about WW's, as she is on it too. We couldn't believe it when four hours had passed and it was time for us to go home! On Tuesday we are meeting them at a farm, so that should be fun. It's nice to have a Momma friend near by! We both took a ton of pics and I posted them. The two Brookies played so well together, and they have a lot of similarities: same name, personality, sounds, laugh, cry, etc.

Today was just too damn hot to do anything. I was going to go with Mom to buy a new sewing machine, but she was stuck in a hearing all night so I guess we will go tomorrow.  Brookie was cranky cause of the heat, but thankfully she took extra naps.  I did get in a sex toy that my other friend sent to me, and I'm really excited about using it tonight woohooo! I did manage to do some cleaning, and will have to do more tomorrow and laundry. I did really good with my WW's, although I didn't excercise today, I ate really good and stayed on track. I am determined to lose weight this week!

Not much else really. This weekend is a baby shower that I was invited to, but I am just going to send the gift along with MIL and SIL b/c I don't feel up to facing that family by myself :o/.

Well, that is pretty much up for the update. I'm thinking sometime this week I'm going to start knitting again. I need to get something to do so that I won't go for the fridge every time I get bored. Ciao!

Monday, July 25, 2005

fun weekend

So this weekend was a fun weekend. Saturday morning we went yard sailing and got some toys for Brooke. We got her a walker toy, a bowling ball set, and a musical thingy (not sure what they are called). She LOVES all three, esp the musical thingy and the walker! She walks around like a pro, and laughs whenever she crashes into things! I can't wait till she starts walking on her own!

Saturday night we had a poker party. I made fudge, yummy! Kim, Jim, Nancy, Colleen, Teresa, and Teresa's friend came over to play. I ended up winning, yay! I won $45! It was so good to see Nancy again too! She gave us a wedding present, a waffle maker, yum! So Sunday morning we had waffles. Then Jason and I went to the Solomon Pond Mall where Filene's was having a huge sale! I got three shirts and a pair of jeans for $25! I can't wait to wear them!

Sunday night we just hung out and watched the movie "straightjacket". It was really dumb. :o/. Then I went to bed. Oh, and I actually got off my butt and excercised yesterday, too. I did 20 minutes on my rebounder, and man was I sweating like a pig!

Ciao!

 

Friday, July 22, 2005

arrrrggggg

I'm so frustrated right now. I just can't stick to my WW points. Why do I always indulge? I mean, do I really need those cookies/ice cream/fried food? Its so humilitating, I don't know why I can't control myself. I did great and lost 10 lbs, but now I've gained it all back! I am just so incredibly frustrated right now, and ready to give up. I just had to vent. I hate this.

random pics

Just posting some random pics of brooke that i've taken the last couple of days. It's been really hot, too hot to do anything really. We just got back from Target where I bought some more infant hangers, so I can put away all the clothes that I got from my Aunt's friend. Tonight we have the dinner with the IL's, can't wait. Well, that's it for now! Ciao!

Thursday, July 21, 2005

another hathor

hathor the cow goddess

boring day

Well today was an absolutely boring day. I just hung out with Brooke and Stacie and I did watch a movie, Hostage. It was good, but very violent. I'm going to try to limit Brooke's tv time, and limit violent television in the house in general. I am smart, I'm sure I can think of other things to do with her.

I did do a bunch of laundry today. Tomorrow, I am def going to finish catching up on all the cleaning so I can get back to sewing.

Well, that's pretty much all in my boring life LOL. Ciao!

starbucks

TheNewOrleansChannel.com - Station - Breast-feeding Mom Says She Was Booted From Starbucks

Breast-feeding Mom Says She Was Booted From Starbucks

POSTED: 2:53 pm CDT July 15, 2005 UPDATED: 3:12 pm CDT July 15, 2005

A discrimination claim has been filed against a Metairie coffee shop after a woman said she was asked to leave for trying to breast-feed her newborn.

Kristina Pearson, of Mandeville, said she called 6 On Your Side because she didn't know where else to turn for help.

Pearson said her daughter, Ella, was just 6 weeks old when they went on their first outing to a Starbucks in Metairie.

"I hadn't planned on bringing any bottles with me at all," Pearson said. "I was breast-feeding, so there was no need to bring any bottles."

Pearson said she had never breast-fed in public, so she asked permission.

"(A worker) was like, 'Oh, OK. No problem,'" Pearson said. "Then, about a minute later, a manager came out and said he said, 'I'm sorry, but you can't do this.' He said, 'Personally, I don't have a problem with it, but my customers will.' And then as we were packing up to leave, he offered me a free coffee."

Pearson said by then, she was angry.

"I told him I thought it was illegal, that he couldn't ask me to leave," she said. "And he said, 'Well, I don't know about that, but you can't do it here.'"

Under Louisiana law, it is discriminatory for a person to be denied the "full and equal enjoyment of the goods and services in a public place on the grounds that the individual is a mother breast-feeding her baby."

"Kristina went and asked about it, and she's extremely modest, so no one would have been aware she was doing it," said Pearson's mother, Mary Francis.

At another local coffee shop, Caffe! Caffe!, manager Aimee Lejuene said breast-feeding has never been an issue.

"I've never had any complaints," Lejeune said. "Most of the time, we are unaware that it's even happening."

A spokesman for Starbucks said the company has a broad and diverse group of customers -- including nursing mothers -- and when they learned of Pearson's complaint, they quickly apologized.

"I think the manager should have been aware of the law as part of his role in running a Starbucks," Francis said.

Starbucks is now reminding all Louisiana district managers about the Public Accommodations law.

pacifiers

CNN.com - Study says pacifiers have little benefit - July 18, 2001

July 18, 2001 Posted: 9:49 AM EDT (1349 GMT)

 

(CNN) -- Pacifiers may not interfere with breast-feeding as much as some studies have suggested, researchers reported Tuesday, but they also may not do much to calm a crying baby.

Scientists at McGill University in Canada set out to determine whether giving a fussy baby a pacifier leads the child to stop breast-feeding early -- within the first three months. Many previous studies have suggested a link, and international health groups such as the World Health Organization and the United Nations Children's Fund advise against pacifiers for this reason.

"Breast-feeding comes first," said Dr. Mark Weissman of Children's National Medical Center. "We really want to reinforce and support that every way we can."

The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends breast-feeding because the nutrients in human milk help the baby develop antibodies to infections, and improve cognitive and visual development.  

The McGill researchers found that using a pacifier did not actually cause a child to wean too early. But they said pacifier use may be "a marker of breast-feeding difficulties or reduced motivation to breast-feed."

"Although it may be a marker -- in other words, mothers who are giving up breast-feeding may use pacifiers more -- it really does not appear to be the cause of the termination of breast-feeding," explained Dr. David Horwitz of NYU Medical Center.

The study appears in Wednesday's issue of the Journal of the American Medical Association.

The researchers studied 281 healthy women who had given birth to single, healthy babies and who planned to breast-feed for at least three months.

They divided the women into two groups. Both groups were given instruction in breast-feeding, but one group was asked to avoid using a pacifier to quiet the babies. Instead, the mothers were instructed to try breast-feeding first, then to try other methods like rocking or carrying the infant. Mothers in the second group were allowed to use pacifiers as well as other methods to quiet their babies.

After nine weeks, the researchers found that about the same number of infants in each group weaned or stopped breast-feeding exclusively before three months of age.

They also found that the babies in each group had similar bouts of crying and fussing regardless of whether they were given a pacifier.

"Pacifiers also don't help babies stop crying and fussing very much, if at all," said Horwitz. "In fact, they really serve no particular benefit."

The researchers said larger studies are needed to verify their findings, but they said their work should cause experts to rethink their opposition to pacifiers.

"For most babies, using a pacifier on an occasional basis isn't going to get in the way of successful feeding," Weisman agreed.

Some pediatricians say parents who do give babies a pacifier should stop doing so by the time the child is six months old. Any longer than that and the baby can become dependent, they say. In addition, pacifiers immobilize the tongue and may interfere with speech development.

The official position of the American Academy of Pediatrics -- Pacifiers don't cause medical or psychological problems as long as they're only used between feedings.

CNN Medical Correspondent Rea Blakey contributed to this report.

Wednesday, July 20, 2005

update

Well Brooke's appt with her new ped went really well. The ped said that although she is a small baby, it is absolutely nothing to worry about and that it is even normal for bf babies to sometimes thin out more around this age. She told me to feel free to give her more snacks, and if I want to I could try to give her cheese and milk, but fine if I don't. She said Brooke looked perfect and if she lost weight by her one year appt then we would start to worry, but not to stress over it now. She is currently bf'ing her 10 month old, so I know she is bf'ing friendly. I'm so glad I switched! Also, at the office, the nurses and ped couldn't get over how cute her cloth diaper was and how easy they seemed to be!

Well nothing else is up really. Tonight we went to Barbara's Crossing to eat, I had both lobster and steamers yum yum! Tomorrow I have to clean ,excercise, possible do laundry, and make some more cloth wipes. Stacie and I went to the mall today and I bought 2 really cute shirts and a cute skirt.:o)

Well, that's all. Ciao!

Monday, July 18, 2005

weekend

Well this weekend was a good weekend. Friday night we had a poker night. It was fun, and we broke even, so we didn't lose any money. At midnight I went and got my Harry Potter book, which I finished today. All I can say is wow! I can't wait for the next book!

Saturday nothing much happened. We basically just hung around. We played with Brooke, for some reason she was being especially cuddly and playful LOL. It was nice having Jason home also.

Yesterday I did some cleaning and not much else. I went out with Stacie and her friends shopping, and we rented two movies: suspect zero and deep waters. Both movies were incredibly dumb. I read my book some more and got really sick towards the end of the day, so I took some meds that gave me bad medicine head!

On Friday I also took Brooke to a playgroup at a park, and I posted the pics that I took. She's so cute!

Well today Brooke has her appt with her new ped, I hope everything goes well! The appt is at 2:15, but we have to drive over to her old ped's office to get her file beforehand. Ick. We'll leave as soon as Brooke wakes up, right now she is taking her morning nap.

Well, gotta go! Ciao!

yay

J.K. Rowling, the author with the magic touch - Dateline NBC - MSNBC.com

Excerpt from interview:

Katie Couric: Not many adult journalists are being given this opportunity so I’m very, very flattered.  And why have you decided to keep the number of grownups at a minimum?

Rowling: Mainly because I’ve just had a baby, to be totally honest with you. It’s pressure of time.  I just couldn’t really fit a whole bunch of interviews into the, you know, the nursing schedule, so I just decided that I was going to try and focus on the kids this time.

I knew I liked this woman....;o)

Saturday, July 16, 2005

six flags anti-breastfeeding?

Breast-feeding mom: Six Flags told me to move

 Breast-feeding mom: Six Flags told me to move

July 15, 2005

BY DAN MORAN  

A Great Lakes Naval Base mother is crying foul after an employee at Six Flags Hurricane Harbor allegedly asked her not to breast-feed her 4-month-old daughter in a wading area at the water park.

Rebecca Gray said she has filed a complaint with park officials and is considering legal action to reinforce a state law allowing mothers to breast-feed their infants anywhere in public without interference.

According to Gray, she was standing in a wading area on June 18 watching her 2-year-old son while breast-feeding her daughter, who was beneath a blanket. "I was actually a lot more covered than most people," she said.

In a letter to the Gurnee park, Gray said a lifeguard told her she needed to leave the pool because it was a health code violation.

According to Lake County Health Department spokeswoman Marcia Stanek, breast-feeding is not covered by health codes for public pools.

Six Flags spokeswoman Michelle Hoffman said Thursday the park is reviewing Gray's complaint. "If it did happen, we'll make sure it doesn't happen again," she said.

News Sun

Friday, July 15, 2005

catch up

well nothing much has been happening. Yesterday we went out to eat with my mom and sister, which was a good time. I brought some Cheerios with me and kept breaking them up. I was assuming Brooke was eating them, but when we went to go leave, I saw that she had thrown most of them on the ground :o0! What a mess!

The other day I went shopping, yay! I bougth a really cute Red Sox cheerleading outfit for Brooke for her birthday, a new diaper bag, some shirts for Stacie for her birthday, and some baby gifts for a baby shower I'm supossed to go to on the 30th. I bought her things off her registry: some hooded towels, a praying bunny, and...nursing pads! I was so happy when I saw that she put nursing pads and a breast pump on her registry, I just had to buy her something breastfeeding related LOL! However, I'm not sure I am going to go. I think I just might send the gifts with my MIL and SIL. If Jaosn's aunt Laurie goes, then I will go and just sit with her.

I've been bad lately and haven't done any work on any new covers. I have to wait 60 days for a refund for the broken machine I bought! I'm hoping to just go to Wal Mart and buy another one, cause while sewing on my great grandmother's machine is possible, it is def not easy! Sucks though 'cause until I get refunded I don't have the money really to buy another one.

Well that's pretty much it. Tonight is my show and then at midnight I am going to pick up the new Harry Potter book, yay!!!! At 1pm Brooke and I are going to a picnic in the park with a playgroup, so that should be fun. I made some salad to bring along.

Well, got some wet dipes that need to be hung up to dry. Ciao!

Thursday, July 14, 2005

breastfeeding in Schul

Jewish and Israel News from New York - The Jewish Week

(07/15/2005) Send this articlePrint this Article Send this articleSend this article Breast-Feeding Kosher In Shul Conservative movement, bidding to increase its appeal to younger people, sanctions discreet nursing in sanctuary. Debra Nussbaum Cohen - Staff Writer
The bosom of controversy: Rabbi Bradley Shavit Artson, author of the recent breast-feeding ruling.

To the truly religious, the Torah is like mother’s milk — sustaining and nurturing.

Many, however, don’t believe the sanctuary is a place where mothers and their babies should extend that metaphor into breast-feeding. In their view, the only thing that should be uncovered during services is the Torah scroll.

But a new religious opinion passed recently by the Conservative movement’s law committee endorses the idea of women discreetly breast-feeding their children in the sanctuary.

“I understand halacha to permit public breast-feeding, including in a beit midrash or synagogue sanctuary during a worship service, so long as it is done in a modest, subtle and dignified fashion,” according to the paper written by Rabbi Bradley Shavit Artson.

“This paper is important particularly as the Conservative movement gears up to show its attractiveness to younger people and to bringing women on board as equal players,” Rabbi Artson, dean of the rabbinical school at the University of Judaism in Los Angeles and the father of young children, told The Jewish Week. “Including in synagogue life the family raising that so many women are intimately involved with is essential,” as is “making the decorum of our synagogues less of an inflexible priority.”

The matter of mothers breast-feeding in public — still a taboo in some quarters despite a popular culture that worships displays of midriff and other flesh — resurfaced as a national issue recently courtesy of talk-show host Barbara Walters.

In May, on her show “The View,” the 70-something Walters expressed distaste at having seen a woman nursing her baby on a plane.

In less time than it takes to get junior into suckling position, some 200 women converged on the television studio to protest, holding babies and placards.

Synagogue sanctuaries are hardly immune from social challenges. Some Orthodox congregations recently began banning most alcohol consumption; one Orthodox synagogue on Long Island has prohibited talking during religious services.

While the Conservative movement has sanctioned breast-feeding in the sanctuary, most nursing mothers say they often seek out the privacy of a quiet room in the building.

Sarah Kahn Glass had her third child, Jacob, a month ago. Even though only close friends and family members were in attendance at his brit milah at her Conservative synagogue, the Park Slope Jewish Center in Brooklyn, she retreated to the rabbi’s study to nurse before and after the circumcision.

“At the beginning it’s very hard to be discreet,” Kahn Glass said. “You need to expose more of yourself because the baby can’t get a grasp as easily and you need to help him in those first few weeks. When they’re 9 months old, you just have to lift your shirt a tiny bit and the baby can do the rest.”

She describes herself as “an avid nurser,” saying she breast-feeds in restaurants and other public locations. But Kahn Glass said she probably would not nurse inside the sanctuary.

“I think it would be distracting in synagogue, and I’m not sure that it’s the best thing for the rest of people in this environment, especially people of another generation,” she said. “I would remove myself from the sanctuary but wouldn’t be bothered if other people breast-fed. It’s a decorum thing for me.”

According to Rabbi Artson, discouraging nursing in the sanctuary is “a mistaken idea of what kavod hatzibur [honoring the synagogue’s dignity] is.”

“There is no greater image of the love of God for humanity than a nursing mother, and no greater image for the way the Torah is lovingly transmitted from one generation to another than a nursing mother,” said Rabbi Artson, who is among those being bandied about as a possible successor to Ismar Schorsch as chancellor of the Jewish Theological Seminary.

The Conservatives’ stance on breast-feeding, which in effect becomes denominational policy, was adopted at the June 1 meeting of the Committee on Jewish Law and Standards after heated debate. The 14-3 vote for approval was split largely along generational lines, Rabbi Artson said.

The matter did not become the focus of attention because of a congregational contretemps, though there have been plenty of those, rabbis said.

Rather it arose when a student of Rabbi Artson was pregnant and asked him whether she could nurse her baby in Talmud class and during worship in the sanctuary.

Rabbi Artson decided to investigate and found plenty in classical Jewish sources to support the stance by the Conservative movement.

The student, Rabbi Amy Bolton, said she nursed her firstborn “on milk and Torah” through her last semester in seminary. That child, a daughter named Shuli, is now 5. Rabbi Bolton and her husband have two other children, ages 3 and 1.

“I’m glad to hear they passed the teshuvah,” she said. “It should be a non-issue, and we should have our communities actively supporting mothers and children.”

“This can be an issue which inadvertently marginalizes families, and particularly women,” said Rabbi Edythe Mencher, assistant director in the Union for Reform Judaism’s Department of Jewish Family Concerns.

Many of the women who picketed Walters for her comments against breast-feeding in public reported that they have been asked to leave fast-food restaurants, airports and other public places because they were nursing their babies.

In Jewish environments, those in charge don’t always seem to extend the milk of human kindness to nursing mothers.

A mother of two was breast-feeding her infant while watching her 5-year-old play in the pool at the Osher Marin JCC in San Rafael, Calif., in March 2004 when a manager walked up to her with a towel and asked her to cover up because she was “in full view of a senior exercise class,” reported the San Francisco Gate.

Outraged, the mother, Lisa Tabb, canceled her membership.

Orthodox rabbis haven’t needed to involve their professional organization, the Rabbinical Council of America, in this area, according to the group’s executive director.

“The issue hasn’t come up,” said Rabbi Basil Herring. “In the Orthodox world there would be a general understanding that it would be best for the mother and baby to be following the traditional role of staying home. If she does come to synagogue, it would not be in the pews where she wouldbe breast-feeding.”

In the Reform movement, “there are different norms in different communities, but no overall policy,” said Rabbi Mencher. “We get many more questions about what to do about screaming children. If a child is nursing, they’re quiet.” n

Tuesday, July 12, 2005

boring day

Just a quick little entry cause I got some stuff to do. Not much happened today. I was supposed to go out with another mother and her son shopping, but she never called me :o(. This was after I got up and got Brooke and I both ready. O well maybe something just came up. Tomorrow I will do the shopping I planned to do probably, we'll see how things go. I'm planning on going to a new mom's group to a park in Oxford. I also have another park playgroup with my regular group on Friday, which I will make spinach and strawberry salad to bring along.

Nothing happened today. Brooke and I just sat around and played. It's so funny to see her come up with new nursing positions. Some of the positions that she nurses in makes me laugh, which in turn makes her laugh, and milk ends up getting sprayed everywhere LOL! And she does stand up by herself now, but only when she is standing up by holding on to furniture and gets exccited and forgets to hold on! She'll let go to clap her hands and then as soon as I get excited that she is standing on her own she will realize what she is doing and get nervous and plop down! My little baby is growing up :')

Well, that's pretty much it. Gotta get going, have to clean the kitchen, sweep the floors, and edit a job for my mom. Good thing Brookie went to bed early tonight!

seriously preverse and wrong article!!!

This article is disgusting and very wrong!

 

Breastfeeding Is Child Abuse
by Dr. Erik Von Krammer PhD
(Translation from the original German to the English langauge
. June, 2003.)

Is Breastfeeding Harmful?

It has been noted in the scientific community that breastfeeding is natural and healthy to the mother and child, for they say it's creates a bond between the two.

Upon closer investigation into these so called "facts" it is found to be fraudulent findings the "mainstream" science community panders out to the media and doctors.

My findings show that breastfeeding is harmful to the child in more was than one
.
When a mother breastfeeds it is very intimate to the mother and child, now the "mainstream" scientific community says that this creates a loving bond between the two, this is simply not true. The scientific findings are that when a mother breastfeeds she becomes sexual aroused, which creates vaginal spasms which can lead to orgasm.

This releases endorphins with creates a euphroia type state and is addictive
.
Combined with the sexual aspect of breastfeeding with it's addictive nature is most definatly harmful to the mother. In a recent news story it was reported that a woman was still breastfeeding her child even though the child was at the age of seven.

The mother can develop incestual desires for her child because of the sexual nature of breastfeeding, which will lead to the mother sexually abusing the child throughout its life
.

Weaning begins on the average around six months to a year after the childs birth. The intimate nature of breastfeeding is harmful to the mother as pointed out earlier in this article but it is more so harmful to the child.

When the child is being breastfeed it of course sucks on the nipple of the breast, but also the child uses it's hand to touch the breast while it's face is buried in the mothers breast also. This sucking, pressing, and touching of the breast leads to negative effects in the psychological development of the child.

If the child is a boy it will develop an Oedipus Complex (the boy being sexually attracted to his mother.) which can lead to adult personality problems if not resolved in early childhood. Studies show that boys that have been breastfeed develop sexual perversions while they are growing up because of their sexually lust for their mother. It has been noted the boy will start off by staring at his mothers breasts longing to see, touch, and suck of them like he did when he was a baby.

Him not being able to view his mothers naked breast will cause frustration and perversion, the boy will be sexually aroused when his mother presses her breasts against him while giving him a hug or holding him. Measures need to be taken not to hug the child in a way so that the breasts do not come in contact with the boy.

Adolescence will be a very difficult time for the boy because he will start to have orgasms upon masturbating. Such acts will fuel his lusts for his mother even more, there have been documented cases of such boys that sexually assaulted their mothers because of it.

Upon adulthood the boy will have feelings of anger and guilt because of his sexual attraction to his mother. In one case a twenty two year old man was so sexually frustated at his feelings toward his mother that he bound her up while she slept and then raped her repeatedly and not stopping despite her pleas to stop. After a psychological examine it was shown that the man was harboring sexual perverisons toward his mother, which was traced back to him being breastfed until the age one and a half.

Another case involved a boy that had just reached adulthood, he hid in his mothers bedroom and upon her arriving home she went into her bedroom to change clothes, the boy then leaped out of the shadows when she had her back turned and choaked her to death then sexually abused her corpse
.
The police found numerous photos of his mother in his bedroom. The photos of his mother were her in bikinis and bras, the photos of her in bras were voyeuristic.

There was a man that was the at the age of seventeen at the time he killed and cut off his mothers breasts, the police found the boy sucking on the severed breasts.

Girls that are breastfed are harmed too, as noted before the mother develops sexual attraction to the child from breastfeeding which leads to child abuse towards boys as well as girls.

Girls that are breastfed also develop sexual perversions. Three-forths of women that were breastfed as babies has engaged in premature sex, hate their bodies, develop eating disorders, and engage in compulsive masturbation.

Over half of women surveyed that were breastfed developed severe psychological disorders such as body dysmorphia, severe depression, obsessive-compulsive disorder(s), etc, etc, etc.

Conclusion

Breastfeeding causes extreme psychological & sexual perversions in the mother and their child(ren.) It is best advised for women to bottle feed their baby to avoid the negative consequinces noted above in the child(ren.) If you (the mother) are breastfeeding it is advised to stop now and switch to the bottle to stop any futher psychological damage done to you and your child and seek therapy for yourself and the child when he/she is old enough.

 
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Monday, July 11, 2005

interview with BF'ing mother on plane

Only the Blog Knows Brooklyn: INTERVIEW WITH THE WOMAN ON THE AIRPLANE

June 11, 2005 INTERVIEW WITH THE WOMAN ON THE AIRPLANE

Nursing_2The following is my exclusive interview with R., the woman on the airplane. She just sent her responses to my questions a few minutes ago. (Friday, June 10th 2005, 11:05 a.m.)

OTBKB: I'd love to ask you a few questions  - if you have a moment.

--When did this happen?

I believe that it was May 11th.

--What was Barbara Walter’s mood when she asked not to be seated near a baby?

It was on the NY Shuttle to DC which was completely packed.   I think that everyone on the plane was stressed.  We just barely made it and got on at 9:25 for the 9:30 shuttle. It is open seating and every seat was taken in the front.. my husband and I went to the back in hope of two seats together.  We had our baby, two bags, my computer bag, and our "boppy" with us. Of course, everyone looked down so that we would not choose that middle seat. When we got to the back, there were not any seats together so I started to move into a middle seat -- that would be next to BW. I did not know it was her.  That is when she said - I don't want to have to sit next to a baby to her companion so he moved and I took the middle seat.  My husband had taken another middle seat so we gave my aisle to his seat companion and then we had two seats together with our son in my lap.

--Did she actually say anything to you?

No, she did not talk to me.

--Did you get the sense that, for BW, it was about not wanting to be near a baby (who might cry or something) or because it had something to do with the breastfeeding?

Since I was not breastfeeding, I believe that she did not want to sit next to a baby .. in case, he cried, etc.

--How is it where you live. Are people accepting/unaccepting  of breastfeeding.

In Johannesburg, we have heard that breastfeeding in public is not that acceptable, but I have not encountered that. I breastfeed in restaurants, basically everywhere, and the non-white community is very pro-breast feeding. For them, it is completely natural and the most important thing.  At my office, no one minds that I have to pump and that I feed my son at lunch - my husband brings him to me.

--Is it well known that you are the person who was sitting next to BW?

ONLY among my friends and that listserve ...

--Were you aware that this story was becoming a big deal in New York. Possibly elsewhere...

No, not until it made it onto the Washington listserve
. I would have never known.

--Why do you think the you and the baby should have been covered with a blanket. Was that discussed on the plane?

No one said a word to me on the plane -- I was wearing a big shirt that typically hangs down in front of me so I did not think about it.  Most people on the plane were too busy with the blackberry, computer, etc. to notice me, I think.

--Is there anything you'd like to say to BW about this.

I just think that if she had known that we were over 18 hours in our journey, she would have felt differently ... and that actually if she had talked to me, she would have found an interesting, competent young woman.

--Is there anything you'd like to say to the hundreds of women who joined the protest and all the others who support the Lactivists but couldn't make it to the rally?

GO FOR IT!!!! and THANK YOU!!!

--Do you think this is a "movement" whose time has come?

Definitely -- it is crazy that people have a problem with it ..

-- Tell me more about yourself ONLY if you want to.

You can say that I work for the World Bank in Johannesburg, South Africa.  I moved here in September but previously I had been living in Central Asia and Russia
.

OTBKB NOTE: For those of you who are just tuning in: Barbara Walters made a comment on the ABC morning talk show, "The View" about feeling uncomfortable sitting near a breastfeeding mother on an airplane. It caused a brouhaha and inspired a movement ofLactivists who demonstrated in front of ABC earlier this week.

just another manic monday

Well today was a pretty good day. Still didn't make it to the library LOL but I will tomorrow. We hung out for most of the day, Brookie actually slept a lot, she took a three hour nap then two other hour naps. I just put her to bed, she fell asleep while I nak. After her first long nap we went over to my aunt's and met my mom and cousin to look at a house since my cousin is house shopping. It was waaay too small, yuck. After that I came home and just hung out some more till now, what an exciting life I lead LOL. I did take some random pics of Brooke, including some where she is wearing the diaper cover I made her. Pretty soon I will have the pattern down pat, I hope. I'm really looking forward to starting up my biz but really really nervous too. I have to think of ways of getting my name out there.

Tomorrow I am hitting the library and also going to the BV shops with another mama that I met online. I have to pick up a new diaper bag, mine is falling apart pretty badly now. I also have to pick up my sister's b-day present and an ink cartridge, and all the stores are at the plaza.

Today off ebay I bought four yards of PUL and 2 yards of the Little Mermaid fabric to make more dipes. Maybe if I am feeling brave I will attempt a dress again, but I dont think I'm going to use a pattern this time. I will just wing it LOL. It will be a disaster :o)

Well that's pretty much it for today. Ciao!

formula can labels

Why Breastfeed? Formula Can Label

Formula label, want a scare?

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Here's one of the best reasons to breastfeed

"Enzymatically hydrolyzed reduced minerals, whey protein concentrate, palm olein, soy, coconut, high-oleic safflower oils, lactose, maltodextrin, patoassium citrate, calcium phosphate, calcium chloride, salt, potassium chloride, magnesium chloride, ferrous sulfate, zinc sulfate, copper sulfate, manganese sulfate, potassium iodide, soy lecithin, mono and diglycerides, inositol, choline bitartrate
sodium ascorbate, alpha tocophyeryl acetate, naicinamide, calcum pantothenate, riboflavin, pyridoxine hydrochloride, thiamine mononitrate, folic acid, phylloquinone, biotin, vitamin D3, vitamin B12, taurine, L-carnitine"


That's what's in formula!

Whey, one of the main ingredients in almost all formulas, is a waste by-product of producing certain dairy products, particularly cheeses.  Aren't you glad that the manufacturers now have a profitable way to dispose of their former waste products??

Palm, coconut and safflower oils are some of the least expensive oils, and so are used in many snack foods, and such things as movie theatre popcorn. 

And it's not always available, of course.  Disaster can befall you and your baby anywhere, and you don't need to run to the store to get breastmilk.  The following was excerpted from Milk, Money & Madness: The Culture and Politics of Breastfeeding (Bergin & Garvey), 1995.  ((c)1995 Naomi Baumslag and Dia L. Michels. All rights reserved, may not be reproduced, in whole or in part, without permission.)

"Jennifer Stolpa knows the miracle of breastfeeding. Stranded for 8 days in Nevada by a winter storm that buried the region, Jennifer's son Clayton is a thriving child today only because she chose to breastfeed. After spending five nights in their snow-bound truck, James left his wife and five month old son in a cave while he sought help. Jennifer melted show in her mouth, held Clayton snugly, and nursed him throughout the ordeal. The family survived with little more than frostbite and weight loss. Experts agree that breastfeeding saved Clayton's life. Heidi Lunn also knows the wonders of breastfeeding. Her Florida house was destroyed in Hurricane Andrew. She was nursing her three-month old baby when the storm hit. Living near the eye of the storm, her neighborhood and all the surrounding communities were destroyed. "We were trapped," Heidi recalls, "we had no water for a week, no fuel, debris covered everything. We couldn't have bought formula then had we wanted to. Thank God I was breastfeeding!" Most people don't expect to have a disaster befall them. But acts of war, environmental accidents, and natural disasters are part of life. Floods, earthquakes, hurricanes, and ice storms can bring life as we know it to a halt. Breastfeeding mothers in Kuwait, Somalia, and Bosnia know the importance of their food supply, as do all the women who have raised children on breastmilk in concentration camps, refugee camps, and during periods of famine. No one hopes to find themselves in a desperate situation, but knowing you can take care of your child when an emergency hits can help you and your infant survive."

Nurse Out!

For National Breastfeeding Week, participate in a local nurse out!

ProMoM 2005 Local Nurse Outs

link

ProMoM, Inc. - 101 Reasons to Breastfeed Your Child

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BF cartoon

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weekend

Well my weekend was really good. On Friday we just relaxed. I went to the mall with two other mom's from the worcester playgroup, one had a 2.5 month old and the other a 7 month old. The ladies were really nice and the babies really cute, and we had a lot of fun. Of course, stupid me forgot the camera! When I got home we just relaxed and I watched my show and went to bed. I never made it to the library and I didn't start my cover.

Saturday we relaxed during the day and went shopping at BJ's, which I HATE doing! After that we went to the liquor store where I picked up some margarita mix, tequila, and some smirnoff. Brooke and I then went to Beth's to help her watch Julia, 7 weeks old, and Anna, 16 months old. Whew! Taking care of three little ones is a tough job, even with help! I have a newfound respect for mother's of triplets, or even twins! The kiddos were good, Brooke went to bed around 10 but Julia and Anna stayed up till 12! We drank a little, and watched the movie Cursed, which was one of the worst movies I've ever seen. Afterwards Jason came over and spent the night cause he lost power at our house due to the heavy downpour. In the morning he left early, I stayed to help Beth until her sister came for the kiddos. When I got home I found out the IL's were coming over. After their visit we relaxed till Stacie got home and then we ate crab legs and watched the Boogeyman, which was also dumb. Oh, and I did finish my diaper cover yesterday. Ok, still LOTS of room for improvement, but I did do better, and even though it is still too snug, it does fit her, yay! So with each one I get better, hopefully I will get the hang of it soon to open my business. I also posted some random pics of Brooke playing and with her wacky hair style. Last night she took my nursing pad right out of my bra and started playing with it, it was so cute! Well, that's all. Gotta go do laundry! Ciao!

autism and vaccines

Scoop: Evelyn Pringle: Autism + Vaccines = Tax Dollars

Evelyn Pringle: Autism + Vaccines = Tax Dollars

Autism + Vaccines = Tax Dollars
By Evelyn Pringle

We are on the verge of a welfare disaster in this country (USA). Eighty percent of autistic children are under the age of 17. In a few short years, the states are going to be forced to provide support for an overwhelming number of disabled autistic adults. “The costs will be in the trillions,” according to Ann Dachel.

Ann should know, she is a special education teacher, a member of the National Autism Association, and the mother of a boy with autism and a daughter who developed epilepsy after receiving a Hepatitis B vaccine.

Thimerosal is a mercury based preservative that for many years was added to childhood vaccines to boost drug company profits. In the 1990's the CDC added more and more Thimerosal containing vaccines to the mandatory vaccine schedule without adding up the cumulative amounts of mercury that children were receiving from the vaccines.

Finally, in 1999, after watching the dramatic autism and other neurological disorders, officials at the CDC and FDA realized that a fully vaccinated infant was receiving up to 125 times what the EPA considered safe for mercury exposure.

Because half the officials involved were on payrolls of the drug companies they were charged to regulate, they have never ordered the pharmaceutical industry to stop using Thimerosal. In fact, the product is still used in some vaccines. Last year's flu vaccine had a mercury content eight times the EPA safe limit and it was recommended for six-month-old babies and pregnant women.

The generation of children poisoned by vaccines during the 1990s is now reaching puberty and if the Bush administration is successful in blocking lawsuits against the vaccine makers that caused this epidemic of neurological disorders, tax payers will be left holding the bag and a heavy bag it will be.

The theory of mercury toxicity and autism is not promoted by parents only. Its been verified by such esteemed biochemists as Andrew Hall Cutler, PhD and Boyd Haley, the chemistry department chair at the University of Kentucky. A study by Bernard et al titled "Autism: a novel form of mercury poisoning" documents about 100 matching symptoms.

The transcript of a closed meeting in 1999 that was leaked to the press, attended by officials from drug companies and the CDC and FDA, reveals how the 52 vaccine policymakers at the meeting discussed ways to deal with statistics showing that children given mercury in vaccines had a much higher rate of autism, attention deficit and other disorders.

On August 18, 2003, Dr Leonard G Horowitz, warned members of the congressional committee at a Government Reform Hearing on Vaccines as a Risk Factor For Autism, "the great and grave likelihood that disease prevention through vaccinations is violently backfiring-dramatically increasing mortality and morbidity especially among America's youngest citizens."

Horowitz cited the dangers of our nation's "most established, generally accepted, public health practice of vaccination, and its links to skyrocketing rates of autism and brain damage in children."

This public health professional by training, and independent investigator with expertise in medical sociology and infectious disease research, told Congress, "I have unfortunately, over the past two decades, grown accustomed to instances of poor decision-making, gross negligence, and downright cover-ups in safety oversight and pharmaceutical industry control in the vaccine arena," Horowitz said.

In 2002, the research team of David and Mark Geier, released a study based on tens of millions of doses of vaccines given to children in the US during the 1990s, that presented the first epidemiologic evidence that associated the increase in thimerosal from vaccines with neurodevelopmental disorders.

Professor Lynn Adams, of Radford University, a speech-language pathologist who specializes in autism, says a 1999 study determined that the average child received 33 doses of 10 different vaccines by the age 5. She claims the multiple shots could "flip a genetic switch" in children predisposed to autism.

Lisa Blakemore-Brown, a Psychologist in the UK, also maintains that Thimerosal is the cause of autism, and suspects it is also the culprit involved in a wide variety of other health problems showing up in children these days.

According to Blakemore, the current autism epidemic did not occur earlier because children "were given single vaccines with single amounts of mercury,” she says, “but with the introduction of triple vaccines the amount of mercury contained within the preservative was multiplied and the cumulative effects are only just now being discovered by the public," she adds.

Parents Struggle With The Burden

Laura Bono is the mother of an autistic child and she wants the public to consider the latest research pointing to the mercury-vaccine link. For instance, researcher, Mady Hornig, recently announced the results of a study where mice were given Thimerosal at the level of the childhood immunization schedule and began exhibiting autistic behavior.

Laura cites a study where toxicologist, Dr Jill James, a former FDA researcher, found a problem with autistic children's methylation which made it difficult for their bodies to rid themselves of mercury. Laura notes the findings of Dr Richard Deth, that once in the body, Thimerosal shuts down the detoxifying methylation process.

Laura reveals how her son Jackson experienced a four month regression beginning days after receiving shots. He received HiB (with 25 mcg. of mercury), DT (with 25 mcg. of mercury), Oral Polio, and Measles-Mumps-Rubella. All totaled, he received 50 mcg. of mercury, three dead viruses and four live viruses. The 50 mcg. of mercury was on top of the 75 mcg. of mercury he had already received in his first year of life through one DPT and two other DT shots. The 50 mcg. of mercury he received in one day was 44 times the EPA exposure limit. He would need to weigh 550 lbs. on that day to process that much mercury. He weighed just 25 lbs. The total amount of mercury from 2 months old to 16 months was 139 times the recommended EPA exposure levels.

My outgoing, social, verbal child was a shell of his old self, Laura said, Jackson’s body was still here. But his personality – what made Jackson his smart, loving self – was gone. The sick body replaced the well one. The sleeping child was replaced by one who would awake startled after a few hours and not go back to sleep all night. The one who had a healthy appetite was replaced by one who became picky and whittled his foods down to one or two. The happy child was replaced by an unhappy one. The child who at one time didn’t miss a thing and was the life of the room became distant and preferred to be alone. The one who was developmentally ahead of the crowd began making strange noises and exhibiting odd behaviors. The child God gave us was gone, Laura said.

Andrian Prokofiew of New Jersey, has a son who was developing normally until he acquired autism at 17 months after receiving 20 some vaccines containing Thimerasol. Within weeks of the last three vaccinations given in the same visit, "he lost all speech for 3 years, did not even look at me or know who I was. He screamed for two weeks, his ears turned red, his eyes dilated and he began to spin, flap his hands and bang his head," she said.

It took more than 3 years to find out what happened to him medically and Andrian says she was horrified to find out the pharmaceutical companies gave bonus dollars for each vaccine given.

"Words alone cannot express how devastating this disorder is for the family and child, emotionally as well as financially," she said.

Dr Allen Clark, a licensed physician for 30 years, has a son who developed severe neurodevelopmental symptoms (diagnosed as Asperger’s an autism spectrum disorder) at age 7½ after receiving a routine influenza vaccine containing 25 micrograms of Thimerosal, a dose which the EPA would calculate that would be safe only for a 550 pound adult. The doctor's son weighed only 50 pounds at the time he was vaccinated. Nancy and Tim Hokkanen are parents of Andy Hokkanen, age 6. Andy was exposed to mercury before birth from his mother's tooth fillings, which are 50% mercury, and from RhoGam shots for Rh factor incompatibility. After birth Andy also received Thimerosal from the mandated childhood vaccinations.

Tim's health insurance has covered much the cost of behavioral therapy for Andy but for about 9 months they were on Medical Assistance, which picked up many co-pays. They estimate that their insurance was billed about $100,000 for therapy so far.

Linda Weinmaster has a 13 year old son who also met with mercury poisoning before birth in the form the a mercury-containing RhoGAM shot that Linda received during her 28th week of pregnancy along with his childhood vaccines. He now suffers from a host of medical problems that require care.

Linda tell how her son's medications cost over $6,500 per month. Right now, insurance covers his meds less deductible but not his vitamins which run about $300 per month.

Kendra Pettengill is a single widowed mother of a child with Autism, and Veteran of the United States Air Force.

Kendra is annoyed that anyone would believe that there is not an epidemic in autism and claim that it previously went undiagnosed. “The claim is better diagnosis,” she says, “as if parents, teachers, and doctors 10 or 20 years ago wouldn’t have noticed our spinning, rocking, flapping,head banging, self-biting, children who can’t speak and live in their own little worlds.”

“It is an insult, a slap in the face to parents to claim it is only better diagnostics that recognized our children,” Kendra notes, “A parent 10 years ago would have been just as terror stricken by their child’s condition as I was and would have demanded a reason just as I did.”

Kendra’s insurance company will not pay for her daughter’s medical therapy, the diet, or ABA therapy. In fact, once Autism is diagnosed they can refuse to pay for a doctors visit for the flu if your doctor checks the little Autism box on your insurance sheet, Kendra says.

“Every organization I contacted denied me assistance as they say my $30,000 a year income is too much to qualify,” Kendra said, “A good solid ABA program can cost more than that, per year,” she added.

“I have sold my house, spent my retirement, lost my medical insurance,” Kendra says, “all to save my child from a life of hopelessness.”

According to Kendra, her entire family is affected by her daughter‘s autism, “my parents even sold their house and moved by us to help out,” she said.

Bob Ashburn and his wife Jamie are from Ohio and they have two children with autism spectrum disorder.

Their son, Kyle, who is now 9, was the first to be diagnosed with autism. In many respects they say he was the perfect baby because he was so easy to get along with and yet there was something strange about him that they couldn’t pinpoint. They originally thought that Kyle might be deaf.

When he was about 15 months old, the family was eating at McDonalds when an alarm went off. Everyone in the place reacted to the noise except Kyle, he just kept sat there eating his French Fries. At first the Ashburns thought their daughter Kris, was just shy, and had strange habits, like regular hand washing and needing everything to be consistent. For instance, she needs to sit in the same seat in the car and needs to sleep with her same stuffed animals each night.

Kris is now 14 years old and is very artistically talented and has a great reading level. She can handle regular school but she really needs to have time to herself when she gets home and usually hides in either the bathroom or her bedroom for about an hour reading before she can face the world again.

The Ashburns worry about what kind of future their children will have, especially Kyle who has very few social skills and so many post-reactions to any interactions of a negative sort with people that they don’t know how he can live in society.

When Kyle and Kris get upset they become violent and hit their parents, so the Ashburns have had to change their entire lifestyles so that everything is as consistent as possible and that transitions are made with lots of preparation.

Nothing, not even a quick shopping trip for a carton of milk, they say, can be done on the spur of the moment without some sort of violent reaction from either one or both of the children.

Jennifer Thompson tells how for a period of time, her autistic Zack developed OCD type behaviors about his clothing. "He would only wear certain clothes. No long sleeved shirts, only long pants, and they had to be tucked in!. He would only wear shirts that had buttons. This was an obsession. You did not dare think you could make him do otherwise or he would go into an extreme meltdown. And I know most parents out there understand what a ‘meltdown’ is."

According to Lauro Bono, "What is measurable is the financial toll that this medical crisis takes on families. After the vaccines at 16 months old, Jackson’s medical and therapy needs began taking every bit of money we had saved or ever would have saved."

"The total we have paid for Jackson’s medical, nutritional and private therapy expenses so far," she says, "is roughly $685,000 since August 1990. That is approximately $53,000 per year."

In addition to medical costs, most autistic children can not be left alone and must be looked after and cared for non-stop every day of the year. Unless these kids and their families get the financial help that they deserve from the vaccine makers, the entire burden will eventually fall to the tax payers and the cost will reportedly exceed $2 million dollars per child.

Maybe that will make people wake up and listen.

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Evelyn Pringle
epringle05@yahoo.com

(Evelyn Pringle is a columnist for Independent Media TV and an investigative journalist focused on exposing corruption in government)

ENDS

Friday, July 8, 2005

Formula used for drugs and terrorism?

Powdered baby formula goes behind the counter - Children's Health - MSNBC.com

Powdered baby formula goes behind the counter Many supermarkets locking up infant products amid rising thefts

BABY FORMULA Baby formula is shown in a locked display case at a supermarket in Bethlehem, Pa., June 3. Bradley C. Bower / Ap / AP

Updated: 3:52 p.m. ET June 4, 2005

BETHLEHEM, Pa. - Shoppers with little children might have noticed a change at the supermarket recently: The powdered baby formula has been locked up.

The high-priced item has long been an attractive target for shoplifters, who typically resell it on the black market at a reduced price or use it to cut drugs.

Now, some supermarkets are fighting back, putting formula under lock and key just as they did with cigarettes many years ago.

“There is a point in time when you have to protect your assets,” said Ted Seal, general manager of a Super Fresh store near Bethlehem that locked up its supply about a month ago because thieves had been stealing it by the caseload. Customers who want powdered formula now must ask a manager to unlock a case near the front.

$10 to $30 per can
At Albertson’s Inc., one of the nation’s largest supermarket chains, with more than 2,500 stores in 37 states, stores often keep a very small quantity on shelves, with signs directing customers to the service counter if they want more.

“It has been a problem for a number of years. People steal baby formula, take it to another store and return it” for cash, said Albertson’s spokesman Walt Rubel.

The Food Marketing Institute, an industry group that maintains a list of the 50 most stolen items from supermarkets, said that cases of Similac-brand powdered formula ranked No. 7 and individual cans of Similac followed at No. 8.

Powdered formula typically costs $10 to $30 a can, depending on size and brand, and $75 and up for a case.

In Tennessee, authorities made two traffic stops along interstate highways within the past year that netted more than 4,500 cans of stolen Similac and Enfamil powdered formula.

In North Carolina, seven Honduran immigrants were arrested last year for conspiring to steal and resell more than $14 million worth of baby formula and over-the-counter drugs. In April, they were given sentences ranging from probation to 12 years in prison and ordered deported.

Stolen formula linked to terrorism
FBI Director Robert Mueller has even linked stolen baby formula to terrorism, saying proceeds from black market sales have been used to support organizations such as Hamas and Hezbollah.

Millions of dollars’ worth of powdered formula is stolen every year, said Mardi Mountford, executive director for the International Formula Council, an association of infant formula manufacturers.

Sometimes the formula winds up on the gray market, in which shoplifters sell it at a discount to unauthorized distributors, which in turn sell it to small stores or at flea markets, she said.

Putting formula under lock and key “probably is a good deterrent, but it doesn’t make the consumers very happy because it costs them extra time,” Mountford said.

Weis Markets, which operates 156 stores in Pennsylvania and five surrounding states, said it employs a variety of methods to deter theft, including placing the formula section under video surveillance, teaching employees what to look out for and placing cases behind the cash registers.

“We recognize it is an inconvenience to our customers, but it is designed to prevent theft and if you are preventing theft, you are reducing costs,” spokesman Dennis Curtin said. Formula theft “has always been a problem, but in recent years it has accelerated and become more of a problem.”

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